Monday, December 26, 2011

Christmas Eve

Growing up, I was ambivolent about Christmas Eve. Some families wait until Christmas Day to open up gifts and eat as a family, and my family was no exception. One year when my mom was growing up, my mom, aunt and uncles convinced my grandparents to let them open up their gifts on Christmas Eve.  Christmas Morning was a big "let down" for the kids because they didn't have more gifts to open, and needless to say, that was the first and last year Grandma let them do that. My family didn't even open one gift the night before Christmas, so when I was little, Christmas Eve was usually spent pestering Grandma and Mom, watching movies and playing with my cousins.

Paul and his family, however, have always celebrated on Christmas Eve. Ever since we have been together, his mom's side of the family has celebrated, eaten dinner, had drinks and brought presents to exchange the night before Christmas. For me, this is pretty cool because it is double the celebration! We generally spend Christmas Eve with his mom, open presents Christmas Day as a small family, and have lunch with my mom and dad. Paul's dad has also joined us for Christmas Lunch for the past several years in between his trips to deliver presents to Paul's grandma and the rest of the family.

Our Family, Christmas Eve 2011
Katie (23 months) and Nathan (3 weeks)
This year, we started our Christmas Eve off with the Greer Family Open House. We had such a great time celebrating with our friends, and I hope this is a tradition that we can continue! Mr. and Mrs. Greer had a bunch of finger foods, desserts and drinks for us to enjoy while we mingled. Tiffanie and Jeremy were in town with their son, Caleb, who is 13 months old. Her sister, Katrina, was in from Korea. Noemi, Brian and Isabella were able to come, as were several of Katrina and Tiffanie's friends from around town. Tiffanie's parents are wonderful hosts, and we had to pry ourselves away from the party when it was time to leave.

Tiffanie and Nathan

Isabella, Katie, Caleb and me

Tiffanie, Nathan, Noemi and me

Noemi and Nathan

Caleb

Katie Bug

Brian and Isabella

Jeremy and Katie
Our next stop was Paul's sister, Melissa's, house where his mom's side of the family was gathered. We were greeted by his mom, Aunt Esther, and cousin, Cynthia, who were anxious to meet little Nathan.
Aunt Esther, Nathan and Cynthia

Grandma Irma and Nathan
We had some really good brisket, prepared by Jason, and Katie played with Paul's cousins Sophia, Derek Jr. and Zoe in the playroom. Paul's step-dad, Ramon, his Uncle Derek, his cousin, Ryan, and Melissa's mother-in-law, father-in-law and brother-in-law were also there with Melissa, Jason and Charlie.

This year's Christmas Eve was a lot of fun surrounded by so many people that we love. I couldn't have asked for more!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Christmas Preparations

I am really excited for Christmas this year, although with all the craziness, lack of sleep and adjustments around our house, it is hard to muster up the energy required. Fortunately, I did most of my shopping far enough in advance and online. We were able to get our house decorated for Christmas the day before Nathan was born and Papa, Jon and Grandpa helped Paul put up the Christmas lights outside right after we got home from the hospital.

I can't wait to see how Katie reacts to everything. She is old enough to understand unwrapping presents, yet she isn't old enough to understand Santa and the "countdown" to Christmas doesn't resonate with her like it will in the coming years. This is also Nathan's first Christmas. Of course, he is much too little to understand what is going on at all. I am more grateful and excited that he has made it here to be with us and that we have such a wonderful and healthy son than I am excited to see him open presents. He needs quite a bit of (total) assistance with that. :o)

Papa and Mom went with me to take the kids to Bass Pro Shop to see Santa today since Nathan wasn't here for the Christmas Pictures we took with Santa earlier. When we got there, they were passing out tickets to see Santa at 7pm, and it was noon. I think Katie's patience is a little short for that. I know mine is! However, I did get a couple of pictures of the kiddo's at home before we left. It is much more challenging capturing two little ones looking at the camera at the same time!


Saturday, December 17, 2011

Sesame Street Live

Today was such an exciting day: we went to see Sesame Street Live at the Freeman Coliseum! A couple of months ago, mom and I were reminiscing on when she took me to Sesame Street Live as a little girl and when we looked online, we saw the production was actually headed to San Antonio. We thought how much fun Katie would have and knew we should get some tickets for the show!

Mom and Katie getting a Sesame Street Program
Last month, we took Katie to Sea World, and she was pretty scared of the monsters in person, so I was a bit nervous about whether she would get scared to see them at Sesame Street Live. I shouldn't have worried, though, because she did great! She was enthralled with the show! Grandma and Grandpa spoiled her, of course, and got her a new ball, t-shirt and light up toys before the show. When the show started and all the monsters started to sing and dance, her eyes were glued to them. The only time she broke her stare was to ask Grandma and/or Grandpa for more snow cone....yes, snow cone! She loved that part of the show, too!
Sesame Street Live
Watching the show with Grandma
Snow Cones!!
The show was about 45 min long, then an intermission and another 30 minutes of show. Some of the kids had a hard time hanging in there through the show. The monsters came off stage a lot to dance in the isles and interact with the crowd. Katie didn't want to get that close to them though, and would just walk back and forth between mom and papa and Paul and myself. She actually paid attention for the majority of the show and didn't have a melt down the whole time we were there. She got a really cool Elmo balloon during intermission, too!

Katie and Daddy

Sesame Street Crew

Elmo Balloons!

Friday, December 09, 2011

Countdown to Nathan

FIRST TRIMESTER
Week 1-4: 0 lbs
Week 5-8: +0.4 lbs
Week 9-13 : +1.5 lbs

SECOND TRIMESTER
Week 14-17: +1.5 lbs
Week 18-21: +2.8 lbs
Week 22-26: +8.2 lbs

THIRD TRIMESTER
Week 27-30: +10.5 lbs
Week 31-35: +12 lbs
Week 36-38: +15 lbs

Two Week Postpartum:

Saturday, December 03, 2011

Nathan's Birth Story

Warning: This is probably pretty long for most people. I wanted to record all the details. :o) Enjoy!

Sunday started like any other day. Katie and Paul woke up early to play and I tried to get a little bit more rest. We did some things around the house and loaded up to get groceries from HEB. Katie was starting to get a bit fussy, so we dropped her off with mom and grandma so she could nap while we were out. I asked Paul to put the car seat in the truck, and I packed Katie's overnight bag for later in the week. Mom called and asked if we wanted to go to lunch, so we went to Perico's with mom and papa and grandma and grandpa. We stopped by Irma's for a while after lunch before heading home so Paul could hang up our Christmas lights (which were all burned out).

Katie and I were watching movies inside when I started to notice I was having some shortness of breath. It seemed to be coming in intervals and when I paid attention, I noticed that my back would hurt and my stomach would tighten shortly afterwards followed by pelvic pressure. I though to myself, "Maybe I am having contractions!" I have been contracting for weeks now, but somehow these felt "different." They weren't really uncomfortable, and my back had been aching non-stop, so that wasn't alarming. The contractions were coming 4-5min apart. Finally, around seven, I told Paul I thought I was having regular contractions. I called Nomi and asked her if she thought it could be labor and decided to wait to head to Labor and Delivery until they became more painful. I gave Tara a head's up, just in case it was the "real thing." Around eight o'clock, I told mom that I had been having contractions for two hours and might go in to get checked in another hour or so if they didn't subside. Around nine o'clock, the contractions were becoming more uncomfortable, and I had drank two liters of water, so I doubted I was just dehydrated. I called Grandma and Mom, and Grandma headed over to stay with Katie. I told mom if they admitted me, I would call her so that she could come to the hospital with us.

We got to Labor and Delivery around ten o'clock in the evening. They took me straight back to LDR4, had me change, and placed Nathan on the monitor. The two nurses that were attending to me were Laurie and Diane. Diane drew some labs and placed an IV for me. Laurie took my health history and checked me while Paul was in the waiting room. I was 5cm, 60 percent effaced and -2 station with contractions 3-4min apart. They said we were staying! My doctor wasn't the doctor on call for the practice that night, but the nurses called her anyway to see if she would be managing my labor. She decided to let me labor on my own, and if I hadn't delivered in the morning she would start augmentation (pitocin, breaking my water, ect.).

My blood pressure started to go up around 10:50pm and was 136/92. They drew some more labs to check for pre-eclampsia, and eventually it went back down to 112/62 at 12:25am. Mom got to the hospital around 11pm, Jon stopped by briefly afterwards to say hi, and Noemi came shortly after 12:30am for the night. Paul asked Laurie and Diane when the baby was coming, and they told him "probably not until tomorrow." Paul quickly changed into some shorts and crashed out on the couch. He told us to "wake him up if anything happened." We thought for sure Nathan would be here around 4am, so we had a good chuckle and told him he was unlikely to miss anything if something started to happen.

Laurie asked me if I wanted an epidural when I was admitted, but I was doing pretty well managing the contractions on my own. She told me to let her know about an hour in advance because the on-call anesthesiologist would have to come in to place my epidural. I was the only one in labor at that point. They started some fluids around 12:25am, as well.  Around 2am, the contractions were more painful, and I was debating asking for the epidural. I wanted to make sure that I was progressing first, so Diane checked me and said I hadn't had any changes.

I tried to get some rest around five o'clock, but the contractions made it hard for me to breath, and I would immediately wake up. My contractions were starting to spread out around this time to every ten minutes. I was able to sleep for about 30 min before my nurses came back in to start pitocin. I immediately asked for the epidural when they started the pit because I remembered how quickly the contractions became unbearable last time. They were only starting the drip at 2ml/hr, but they increased it every 20min and I knew it would take awhile for the epidural to be placed. The anesthesiologist would be in house at 6:00-06:30.

They increased my pitocin to 4ml/hr at 5:56 and to 6ml/hr at 06:15. Janie, the surgical tech, came in at 6:15 to set up the delivery supplies. The doctor showed up to place my epidural at 6:41 and the nurses changed shift. Monique, one of my colleagues from nursing school, was taking over my care! It was really nice to see her, and I knew that I would be in great hands.

pitocin drip: 10ml/hr at 08:06, 12ml/hr at 08:29, 14ml/hr at 08:50, 16ml/hr at 09:50, 18ml/hr at 10:10, 20ml/hr at 10:40. I really don't remember seeing the pump higher than 16ml/hr. I was laboring well without much pain or discomfort, just a lot of shortness of breath with each contraction. That was usually the only indicator I had of a contraction with the epidural placed. The pitocin maintained my contractions at 2-3 minutes apart.

Paul and I in Labor and Delivery
Dr. A came in at 10:47 and broke my water, she placed an internal monitor to measure my contractions, as well. She said I was 5cm and 70% effaced. The next hour and half went very quickly, and was the worst part of the entire delivery. Monique went to lunch and another nurse kept an eye on me while she was gone; increasing the pit to 22ml/hr at 11:05, 24ml/hr at 11:28 and 26ml/hr at 11:59. My pain started to become unbearable and I used the PRN pain medicine from the epidural at 11:28 and 11:48. No matter what I did or how I moved, I could not get comfortable and the pain in my right groin was excruciating. The nurse called anesthesia back to give me a bolus dose as the breakthrough medication was not helping me. I got a bolus of Lidocaine at 12:08. Around this time, Monique came back in to check on me and said that she would check my cervix since I was in so much pain. I told her if I was still at a 5 to lie to me and say I was something else. She told me she wouldn't have to lie because I was a 10 and complete at 12:19!!

Monique called Dr. A to let her know that I would be ready to push soon as she was in clinic and would come down for delivery. She helped me change position so that I could labor down and my legs were completely numb. I was a bit worried that I wouldn't be able to push because I couldn't feel a thing! When they first placed my epidural, I was numb but could move my toes and bend my legs without too much help. Monique and Paul both had to lift my legs and move me in the bed at this point, though. As Nathan moved lower down the birth canal, the pain continued to increase, and I used a breakthrough bolus at 13:00. I don't remember the pain being so bad with Katie's delivery as it was this time, but I also dilated from 5-10cm in 92min!

Monique had me push with a contraction at 13:14 to see how much progress we could make. She left to call Dr. A and let her know that we were definitely ready for delivery and when she came back, I pushed with another contraction. She brought the mirror out for me to see Nathan, and I could see his full head of hair when I pushed!! Dr. A arrived and got dressed right afterwards, and with two more contractions, Nathan Edward arrived November 28th at 13:46:12.

Dr. A held him up for me to see, and I was so excited to finally meet him!! He was absolutely perfect, and I reached out to hold his tiny toes. Paul cut his cord, and Dr. A asked if I wanted to hold him. She placed him on my chest and the nurses dried him off. Nathan weighed 7 lbs and 5 oz. He was a perfect 20.5 inches long with feet bigger than Katie's! He has a loud cry, and gets so red when he gets angry. His skin was a bit dry and wrinkly (he was born at 38 weeks and 4 days); with such long fingernails, he looked like a well baked baby! :)

Meeting Nathan for the first time





Grandma and Nathan

Aunt Tara and Nathan

Aunt Nomi and Nathan

Uncle Jon, PawPaw and Nathan

Grandpa with Nathan

Three Generations

Nathan has Paul's curly hair


Grandma and Grandpa brought Katie up to meet Nathan around six o'clock. She was a little bit frightened at first. We were still in the labor and delivery room, there was equipment set up everywhere, and I was getting IV fluids. She came over to give me a hug and Paul took her over to meet Nathan. She kept looking at Nathan and saying "baby" over and over. She really wanted to touch him and look at him. She is going to be such a great big sister! 

Katie meeting her little brother

Katie with Mamaw and Papaw

Baby!



Aunt Tara dressing Nathan



GamGam and Nathan

Great Grandpa and Nathan

Uncle Luis, Grandpa, Paulie and Nathan

Grandma and Grandpa Gauna with Nathan


Aunt Melissa with Nathan

Aunt Leslie with Nathan

We are so in love with our handsome little boy. We were discharged home the very next day around seven o'clock. Nathan has been nursing like a champ, which has been such a great experience. He is sleeping pretty good and honestly acts like a two week old baby rather than a tiny baby who is five days old. He is so precious and we are so grateful to have our family complete.

Our Family

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving!

Paul and Katie at Garcia Family Thanksgiving, November 19th

Katie Bug being Silly

Irma and Charlize, six months old

Katie and Mommy

Katie and Pawpa at the Ross Family Thanksgiving, November 24th

Katie and Mawmaw

Playing with the bubbles with Uncle Jon

Paul and Me, at 38 weeks!!

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

37week, 5 day appointment

37 weeks, 2 days
Weight Gain: +15 lbs per MD
B/P: 128/80
FHR: 137
Fundal Height: not measured

I had two appointments today, and they were pretty uneventful, so I will lump them together in this one update. Nathan is continuing to do well. At the perinatologist, I had an ultrasound (number 10), and he is continuing to grow well. No signs of pre-eclampsia which is wonderful! I am really glad to have made it this far without any serious complications or risks to Nathan. The tech had a difficult time obtaining his measurements because he is out of room! He is head down, very much engaged, and curled up in a ball. They estimate that he weighs 7 lbs 1 oz, which would place him in the 43rd percentile. Dr. R discharged me from his care, and wished me well.

I headed over to see my OB next, which was also pretty uneventful. She was going to do an ultrasound, but I gave her all the documents from the perinatologist, and we just talked about those instead. I have been so uncomfortable the past couple of days, so Dr. A checked me again. I am still 3cm and 50% effaced, although she says he is "much lower this time." Basically, that means nothing to me. Katie was "high" when I started pushing and I didn't have to push that long with her. We confirmed my induction for December 1st, and I scheduled my last follow up with her for November 29th. I can't believe we are so close to meeting Nathan!!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

36 week (and five days) Appointment

Weight: +16 lbs per MD
B/P: 116/80
FHR: 147
Fundal Height: 37 cm

I had an appointment on Tuesday, and Nathan is looking good. He is measuring right on track and moving around really well. I am starting to retain a lot of fluid. So far, I don't notice it in my face, but my hands, feet and legs are really swollen. I wake up with 1+ pitting edema, which only gets worse, even during the day with my feet up. I gained four pounds this week, and I know it wasn't due to over-eating. My nausea is back in full force and I have to work to get my meals in sometimes. At least I am not throwing up though!

We went to Labor and Delivery late on the 13th of November. I had been really uncomfortable all day long, had really bad back pain, nausea, upset stomach and irregular contractions. Around 10pm, the contractions started becoming 2-5min apart, and after talking with Nomi, Paul and I decided to go to L&D and get checked out. I didn't quite think that it was "time," but I knew something was off. The nurse checked me when I got there, determined I was 3cm and 50% effaced and told me to drink 2L of water. They sent my urine down for testing, too. I felt like I was having contractions every 4-5min, but the nurse said the monitor was only picking them up every 10min. About an hour after I finished the water, my contractions started slowing, I had no cervical changes, and my urine test came back positive for a UTI. They did a repeat test just to confirm (from an in-and-out catheter, no less!!) and gave me an IM injection of Rocephin to treat the infection. We headed back home about 3am...what a long night. Hopefully, we won't have any repeat trips until Nathan is actually coming. :)

In other news, Nathan's nursery letters came in yesterday, and Papa helped me hang them up and move Katie's name over to the other wall. I am ready for our baby boy to come and meet us whenever he is ready! We are just playing the waiting game since today is 37 weeks! :)

Monday, November 07, 2011

35 week appointment

Weight Gain: +12 lbs per MD scale
B/P: 112/86
FHR: 130's
Fundal Height: 34cm

Today's appointment was pretty busy. This past Thursday, I started having contractions 2 min apart at work. I was a little concerned because I knew it was due to me doing too much, but I couldn't slow down. I had a lot of work to do with my patients, and we were getting lots of admissions. I brought this up to my midwife at my appointment, and she decided to do a cervical check to make sure these contractions weren't doing anything and were just Braxton Hicks. Turns out, I am starting to dilate/efface. Uh oh. She is placing me on bed rest until the 17th when I will be 37 weeks and considered "full term." Right now I am at 2cm and 50% effaced.

My allergies have really had a hold on me this past week, too. I can't take very much for them and I am a sneezing, runny nose, itchy eye, lethargic mess. I am hoping that I am on the tail-end of it, because this is pretty miserable. She wrote me a script for some more Singular, so I am hoping I will start feeling better soon.

Tuesday, November 01, 2011

34 week Appointment

34 weeks, 1 day
Weight Gain: +14.4lbs per MD Scale, +12lbs at home
B/P: 122/72
FHR: 139

My appointment this afternoon went fairly well, with the exception of having to wait in the hall while their lunch ran over. They had three unhappy pregnant girls waiting in the hallway when they got back. Nathan is still head down and was shadowing my cervix, so they couldn't see anything there. All the fluid looks good (was around 20), so that means his kidneys are working well. His head is measuring on the high side of normal and his femur on the low side of normal, with his belly right in the middle. He has been measuring like that for at least a couple of appointments. All together they estimate his Gestational Age at 34w6d and I am 34w5d today. He weighs 5 lbs 8 oz and is in the 36 percentile.

I about fell over when they said he weighs 5 1/2 lbs!!! That seems so large, and Katie was only 6 lbs 5oz when she was born, 5lbs 5oz in the NICU. And Nathan has possibly 5 more weeks to grow! When I got home, I looked up Katie's measurements for the same time in my pregnancy and they actually estimated her to be 5lbs 13oz and in the 53% for 34w6d. She was bigger than Nathan, although it sure doesn't feel like it! I can't believe we are getting so close to meeting Nathan already!